heartbreak in your 20s

some people would think that losing a lover is one of the most painful things in your youth - losing that person you gave yourself to without reservations, that person who you opened your entire heart and soul to, that person you went to whenever anything would happened whether it be good or bad... but the thing is, it's much more painful to lose yourself as you fall in love with someone else.

i guess i haven't been the lucky one yet with all my past relationships that made a dark turn but it's okay. my heart grows bigger the more that i get older and i have all the reasons in the world to keep leaving pieces of myself to the people i care about and love the way i want to be loved.

if anything, my advice to the younger generation is to get your heart broken before you reach the age of 25. just trust me on that and i'll leave the future up to you to figure it out like you always do.